It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year

If you have recently walked into a grocery store, a department store, or even a dollar store, you know it already looks like Christmas pin up is around the corner, although it’s not even Thanksgiving! Retailers are doing their best to make sure you don’t miss any deals of a lifetime on Black Friday, Christmas movies are on TV every night (some of us enjoy the Hallmark channel after Thanksgiving), and many people are already dreading the shopping, card writing, and decorating. And yet, it is still only mid-November as we write this! اليورو 2023 مباريات

Over the years, we’ve learned how to keep our sanity, but more importantly how to stay focused on the joyful message of Christmas and the preparation period of Advent.

We readily admit that some years we’ve felt a fair amount of stress as Christmas approaches. We’re certainly not immune to the various pressures and traditions that “we just have to keep.” Although there is no magic formula for a stress-free December, over our three decades of marriage we’ve settled into several traditions that help keep the focus on Christ’s birth and contribute to what makes the season unique for our family.

Every year we celebrate Advent, Saint Nicholas (December 6), Saint Lucy (December 13), Saint Stephen (December 26), and Epiphany (January 6 or the Sunday after the Feast of Mary Mother of God). كيف اعمل ايميل كونكر Our current parish also has a carol sing the Sunday evening before Christmas, which is always a great pause from the busyness leading up to the holiday. If that weren’t enough, we celebrate our engagement date (two days prior to Christmas) by going out to dinner as a deliberate pause for the two of us amid all the activity.

We enjoy having an Advent Wreath on our kitchen table from the first Sunday of Advent until Christmas. اون لاين كازينو We typically put up our Christmas decorations no earlier than two weeks before Christmas. مسلسل كرة قدم This way, we’re not tired of them by the time Christmas arrives and we’re happy to keep them up through Epiphany to celebrate the entirety of the Christmas season.

Being a Coast Guard family, we often were not near our extended family, so our Christmas day was usually joyful but calm. We weren’t on a tight schedule of trying to get to gatherings hosted by other family members. خوارزمية الروليت While we were stationed in the Washington, DC area, we started a tradition of attending noon Mass on December 26th for the Feast of St. Stephen at the Basilica of the Immaculate Conception followed by a matinee movie (the only time in the year we see a movie in the theater) and dinner out.

We both come from families of generous gift-giving and wanted to keep gift-giving in perspective, so we settled on three gifts (plus a stocking) for our children — similar to Jesus’ three gifts from the Magi. This tradition helped keep the volume of gifts in balance with what we were actually celebrating, especially when our children were younger.

Special meals are a big part of our Christmas traditions, so we have specific favorite meals and desserts for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Our schedule on Christmas Eve includes a fancy dinner, a picture of the kids dressed up in front of the tree, and then Christmas Eve Mass. Afterwards, the kids exchange their gifts with each other per the gift exchange they organize among themselves each year.

For many years we hosted an Epiphany party for our friends as a way to celebrate the end of the Christmas season. It was a great way to celebrate the close of the season, and there was less stress and less competition with other events, as it was after Christmas. العاب البوكر

So, as Advent and Christmas approach, we look forward to our traditions to help us focus on the reason for the season. We pray for peace and hope in the coming of our Savior to displace our stress so that we may enjoy this wonderful time of the year.

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